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i read tis thingy in..FEMALE MAGAZINES!

Commandments 10 of long-Distance RELATIONSHIPS..!

do long distance relationships work, you shud ask urself! C= how can you keep loving sumone is you cant even see dem? Reality btw u. However, long-distance relationships can n do succeed!! its depends how u both manage it~ Wad works for u may nt work for another!

1) Communicate : Sharing ur emotions is key.Make time to tok to each other daily. We dont owaes hv long, in depth conversations altho v do hv those avy now n den. Luks at it as our time to share lil daily triumphs n tragedies! In avy relationship,near or far,if communication is taken for granted,the relationships will falter, eventually dying a natural death. Let him noe wad u've been doin n tinkin, dart wae he'll feel close to u, even if nt physically.

2) Enjoy life : Say ur bf gets gig n moves halfway round the continent to fulfill his contract. He's asked u to wait n u agreed. Meanwhile, u cant just sit dey n wait for him to cum bak to u before u begin living agin. Wad if...things dont work out n he leaves u, n u've wasted all dart time? u wunt just b stunting ur growth as an individual but developing insecurities on numerous level.Turn ur focus on urself n otha things while waitin. Begin by identifying ur passions.Get in touch wit ur creative nature.If u r a homebody,read books dat will help u grow intellectually n emotionally ir surf for similar reasons. They r endless wae to keep busy. It is up to u to dcide wad ure interested to get involved.But reber, being busy is no excuse to forget "special days" or worse, your loved one. Your aim is to allow urself to grow in his absence. Reber, u hv ur own life to live, wit or without ur loved one!

3) Fear not : Dey r owaes "what ifs" dart can b scary. Dont sweat it! discuss ur fears togetha,tis wae u can reassure each othe overcome dem. Long distance relationship r definitely nt ofr da faint-hearted. Get a grip on ur woes by toking to him.

4) Be creative : Sending each other spontaneous 'gifts' helps spice up de relationship.Try a creative countdown like a photo calendar, a drawing for each day showing somthing dart reminds u of him,n mail it to ur partner to enjoy until u meet agin.Send ur loved one creative packages like these every few weeks n u might just see ur relationship blossoming~

5) Be patient : Learn to b patient,if ure not!You may hv to wait months or even years bfore u can finally b in a proximal relationship.Its a test of time.Without patience, u wont b able to c it through. Try to focus ur attention on all de positive aspects of de relationship.Nv gives up hopes as an individual n a couple.Showing dart u value the relationship n r willing to work patiently on it will also let him noe u truly love him.

6) Trust : Nt avyone can avoid temptation to b controlling, noe-ing their loved one is so far awae.The fact is notha ppl hv a free will n no one can or should control notha person. In long distance relationships, trust is dart much tougher considering u cant c ur partner. If u hv da communication covered, den u ll b able to build better trust for another. Wit mutual trust, u nv hv to question each otha motives n de relationship is solid,Learn to b true to de relationship n dn giv in to feelings of insecurity,suspicion n impulses as these will onli bring ur relationship down.If u r true to each other n hv no hidden motives, den u will b alrite. Tis applies even to proximal relationships.

Haiyo, tired dy lor~ hahaz! enuf lers~
de other four nt relie dart meaninful geh lar~ C=
soo dnid to type it down de lar! hehes~ XD im LAZIE! bleks!

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